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		<title>The benefits of being unreasonable</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[You succeed when you are unreasonable. You neither give nor accept excuses. You insist on success. L. Ron Hubbard defines reasonableness as &#8220;faulty explanations.&#8221; When you agree with faulty explanations, you are too reasonable. Examples of faulty explanations: &#8220;I can’t repair your furnace today as it might rain.&#8221; The truth is, the repairman is going [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You succeed when you are unreasonable. You neither give nor accept excuses. You insist on success.</p>
<p>L. Ron Hubbard defines reasonableness as <strong><em>&#8220;faulty explanations.&#8221;</em></strong> When you agree with faulty explanations, you are too reasonable.</p>
<p>Examples of faulty explanations:</p>
<p><em>&#8220;I can’t repair your furnace today as it might rain.&#8221;</em> The truth is, the repairman is going to a basketball game.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;None of the staff will work past 5:00.&#8221;</em> The truth is, the manager does not want to work past 5:00.<span id="more-588"></span></p>
<p><em>&#8220;I can’t pay you as I promised as my wife is sick and can’t fix our meals.&#8221;</em> The truth is, he is spending the money elsewhere.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;We’ll never get this project done today as we’ve never done it in one day before.&#8221;</em> The truth is, they’ve never tried to get it done in one day.</p>
<p><strong>Why Agree?</strong></p>
<p><strong>If you agree with faulty explanations, you agree to fail.</strong> Excuses, justifications and reasonableness produce nothing.</p>
<p>Yet disagreeing often helps you succeed.</p>
<p>&#8220;If you can’t fix the furnace today because of the rain, no problem. I’ll see if I can find someone who repairs furnaces, despite the rain.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;I believe lots of people will work past 5:00. You are the manager and need to handle the schedules. Do you need me to show you how to do it?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Well, I’m sorry about your wife, but don’t see how that’s related. You agreed to pay me today, so I’ll have to get the money from you right now as you promised.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;So what if we’ve never done a project like this in one day. We are better at this than ever before and I think we can get it done if we get going right now!&#8221;</p>
<p>The sun shines, the birds sing and everything improves when you disagree with faulty explanations. The lies disappear, the truth comes out and the solutions are obvious.</p>
<p>As well as being unreasonable about problems with others, you must be unreasonable with yourself. For example, &#8220;I’m tired and want to go home early. Too bad! I need to disagree and WAKE UP! I&#8217;ll take a brisk walk. Today should be a day I can be proud of.&#8221;</p>
<p>The most important thing you must be unreasonable about is DOWN STATISTICS.</p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;The one big god-awful mistake an executive can make in reading and managing by graph is being reasonable about graphs. This is called JUSTIFYING A STATISTIC.&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;One sees a graph down and says `Oh well, of course, that&#8217;s&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;&#8217; and at that moment you&#8217;ve had it.&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;Never JUSTIFY why a graph continues to be down and never be reasonable about it. A down graph is simply a down graph and somebody is goofing.&#8221;</em> — L. Ron Hubbard</strong></p>
<p>At some point, we have all given or received excuses for stagnant or shrinking statistics. Because these are faulty explanations, no solutions are possible.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Reading skills are getting worse in the United States because we have too many television channels.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Our business failed because nobody would buy our stocks any longer.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;No one buys cars from Pete because he’s too old.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>However, when you disagree with explanations and find the truth, the solutions are OBVIOUS. Examples:</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Television has nothing to do with reading skills. What else could it be? Oh! Are children taught to use a dictionary?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Your business didn’t fail because nobody would buy your stocks. It failed because you didn’t know what you were doing. Do you know how to make a profit? Did you test-market your product? Do you know how to advertise?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;People do buy cars from older sales people. Was Pete working every day? Has anyone trained him to sell?&#8221;</em></p>
<p><em>Exercises</em></p>
<p>In the examples below, decide which are reasonable explanations and which are the truthful statements.</p>
<p>&#8220;I can’t lose weight because (I’m too busy) (I’m lazy and addicted to chocolate).&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Company profits are soaring because (I’m very charming) (the new computer system doubled our efficiency).&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;I have no money because (I don’t do financial planning) (of the economy).&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;I’m single and lonely because (I don’t get out and meet people) (no one likes me).&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;I can’t find a good assistant because I (have too many jobs) (am not taking the time to find one).&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;I let people boss me around because (I’m kind and caring) (I don’t stand up to them).&#8221;</p>
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